Exclusive Interview with Cassie Blanca

This is a copy of an interview that my friends at XLGIRLS allowed me to pass on to my readers. This interview will appear in the upcoming Dec 09 issue of XLGIRLS magazine

: Welcome to the studio Cassie. How are you doing today?

Cassie: Great. My experience here has been awesome so far.

: How did you find out about The SCORE Group?

Cassie: I had been researching magazines for the last year. I was looking to pose somewhere upscale. So I submitted my photos and hoped that I had the look your magazine wanted. I figured it would be a year before I heard anything but you called me  back in like two hours.

: What made you decide to do this kind of modeling?

Cassie: It was actually something I wanted to explore. I’m turning 39 next month and it was just something I wanted to try. I’ve never done anything like this before so it was quite a big step for me to take.

: How do you like it so far?

Cassie: I love it. The people are great here. I’ve made a lot of friends and it’s better than I thought.

XL Girls: You’ve just started shooting hardcore. How did you like it?

Cassie: The first guy I had on-camera sex with was wonderful and yes, he is huge, too. I couldn’t have asked for a better first time.

: Are you a size queen?

Cassie: Well that guy was wonderful on multiple levels. The chemistry was awesome and he was very experienced. I think the most important thing is chemistry over size, but his size was definitely a great present.

: So would you say the same holds true in your personal life when you are dating someone?

Cassie: The chemistry has to be there,but I’m not going to lie to you. There has to be a good amount there for me to play with, too. I wouldn’t want a guy who was too small.

: It seems only fair of you to ask, given that you have a good amount to play with up top. What is your bra size?

Cassie: 44G.

: Do you get a lot of attention for your boobs?

Cassie: I was a server for many years and I actually had to start kneeling at the table because customers wouldn’t place the order to my face, they’d place it to my boobs.

: Did you get good tips?

Cassie: Oh, yeah. I did very well.

: Do you dress to show off?

Cassie: Actually I’m conservative. But I had a lot of fun dressing up for my photo shoots because I’d probably never wear things like that otherwise.  Like I said, this is a completely new experience for me.

:You don’t really like to be the center of attention?

Cassie: No, not really. I don’t need to be the center of attention. At this point in my life I feel confident enough about myself as it is so I don’t really need the outside validation.

: So you don’t look for attention, but what does a guy have to do if he wants your attention?

Cassie: I notice the eyes, the smile and the personality the most. The best thing a guy can do is just be himself  and if we click then we’ll take it from there. Sense of humor is really important.

: You’re here for the shoot for My Big Plump Wedding. Have you been in a lot of weddings?

Cassie: When I was a bit younger, yes. As you get older, you don’t really know that many people getting married anymore, so this was a nice change because I do like weddings and seeing people happy.  I think everyone was pretty happy in this wedding, but for different reasons.  [Laughs] We were all getting laid.  It was definitely an unconventional kind of wedding.

:Were you a brides- maid a lot in the past like how you were in this movie?

Cassie: Probably about four times.

: Did you have trouble finding a bridesmaid dress that fit?

Cassie: Yes. They would always pick dresses that would fit a skinny girl best. They never considered girls with boobs and a voluptuous body. So I’d always be spilling out, kind of like how I was in the dress for this wedding, but that was the point.

: Did you ever realize there was such a large adult market for voluptuous women?

Cassie: No. But at the same time I’ve never had trouble getting men’s attention. They’ve always told me, “Your eyes are beautiful, your smile is beautiful.” And of course they’re like, “Your tits are great.” But still, I didn’t think there would be such a big market for larger women. I’m glad that
there is though.

: So you’re here from Arizona, but where are you from originally?

Cassie: Originally I’m from the east coast. I grew up in Massachusetts for 25 years, then Connecticut and then I moved to Arizona. It’s nice and warm, 120 degrees all the way. I love it out there in the desert.

XL Girls: So you like the heat?

Cassie: I do.

:You mentioned that you dress conservative, but do you like to get naked at all since it’s so hot?

Cassie:Well I’m bad because around my house I never like to wear anything, especially when I’m cleaning the house or cooking. And I do like to get a little sun out in the yard as well. I specifically bought a house surrounded by single-story homes so that I could play naked in my yard without having to worry about anything. But there was one time I was laying out naked in my backyard and my neighbor was watching over the fence and I had no idea.

: How did you find out he was watching you?

Cassie: He actually said, “Oh, hi!” like a dumb ass.

: What did you do?

Cassie: I covered up. It was really weird. I didn’t think that was going to happen. And after that I stopped laying out.

: And you also walk around the house naked?

Cassie: Yeah, but then I found out that my neighbor in the back said that he had seen me walking around the house like that. I leave my blinds open because I have dogs that I let out into the yard. But it’s like, do I have to put up a fortress to have a little privacy in my own home? I didn’t think I’d run into so many issues just trying to be naked in my own home.

: Why would your neighbors open their mouths? They messed it up for everyone else.

Cassie: I think it’s a little strange. But I also think people feel very comfortable around me so they think they can admit things like that to me.  And I would have rather not known. If you’re going to
watch me at least be discreet about it. [Laughs] Now I’m trying to figure out how to put trees back there.

: Does anyone in your personal life know that you’re shooting porn now? 

Cassie: There are only 4 people in my life that know about this. One is my best friend, a couple of people here in Miami, and another friend of mine. So it’s very low-key. Nobody in my family knows. But I don’t have any children so if anyone did find out, I would be like, “I’m being more true to myself than ever before and I’m happier than I’ve ever been.” And that’s all that really
matters to me.

: So it’s safe to say you like it so far.

Cassie: I do. I’ve met some great people, made great contacts.  I think that’s really important. When you hit your thirties you get a high sex drive anyway, so this seemed like a logical thing. Especially
since I don’t typically date. I don’t have time and I’ve been told I’m intimidating. I don’t know how somebody who is 4’11” can be intimidating.

: Maybe it’s because of your big boobs.

Cassie: That might be part of it. They’re not for the faint of heart. But mostly I’ve been told that I’m too ambitious, I have too many goals. I was married before but for me to ever get another partner they would have to have the same strong qualities as me.

: So you’re hornier now than you were in your twenties?

Cassie: Oh, yeah. By far. You don’t really know what you’re doing in your twenties. You’re just getting to know your body and your hormones haven’t really kicked in yet. But when you’re in your thirties it’s like Pandora’s box opens. You start feeling things you didn’t even know you
could feel, and you become open to a lot more things. Now I’m more comfortable and happy with myself, so I can give to somebody else a lot more.  That’s what I love to do. I’m a total pamperer. I give great massages.

: So what else are you good at giving, if you get what we mean?

Cassie: Quite a few things. You could probably ask a couple of the guys in your studio about it.

: Speaking of that, what kind of guys do you like?

Cassie: I’m most attracted to personality and humor first and foremost, then nice eyes, nice smile.

: Does age matter at all to you?  Do you think your sex drive is more on par with a younger guy or someone who is closer to your age?

Cassie: It’s an evil balance. The fact is that a woman my age is more matched up with a younger person as far as the sexual aspect goes, but they might not be on the same level as me mentally.  They’re still figuring out what they want and I’ve lived my life.  I know what I want, and it’s more
than just sex. And although they might be very good and energetic in bed, the connection is more important to me. I typically go for guys 35 and up. That’s why this is great; in porn you get a great balance.

: Are you having more sex now than you did in your twenties?

Cassie: By far. But it’s kind of an uneven question because I was with my ex-husband for 12 years.

:A lot of the models we interview who are married say they swing.  Were you and your ex-husband into anything like that at all?

Cassie: Oh, no. We were the ultimate “Leave It to Beaver” husband and wife. Plus, when we were married I was working a ton of hours and I have three degress in business. So, working my way through school and working full-time and buying a home, we didn’t have time for much else and we
didn’t explore a lot.

: But now you’re breaking out of that mold.

Cassie: Yes. I’ve even been asked a lot about fetish stuff and being dominant,but I’m not really a fetish kind of person so I don’t know why these guys would ask me that. But who knows, one day I might try it. Either way, sex has only gotten better and it gets better with age. And I’m glad I finally started to explore it.

: Would you say that you’re sexually passive?

Cassie: No, I’ve actually been told that when I’m with someone sexually that I’m in control and I didn’t realize it. I like the guy to show me attention but evidently when we’re in my territory
then I’m in control and I’m like, “Do this, do that, come here.” But to me, I’ve always just done what comes naturally to me, and I guess that is being assertive in bed.

:Were you ever into porn?

Cassie: Oh, I love it. And that happened in my thirties, too. When I got divorced, all hell broke loose.   I ended up getting really into porn and toys. I was more eager to experiment. With porn, I like to watch threesomes and girl-on-girl stuff. It’s funny because I also like to watch porn with big-titted
women. I’m not thrilled about implants. I like all natural. That’s why I was attracted to XL Girls. I wanted a place that would bring out the best in the girls and respect them.

: So do you like women? Have you ever fooled around with a woman before?

Cassie: I’m still pretty much a virgin in that area. I’ve done some hot scenes with girls involved like the ones we shot for My Big Plump Wedding. I have kissed and handled boobs and I have a big thing for sucking on nipples.

: But you haven’t done much fooling around with women in your private life?

Cassie: No, not really.

:Would you consider playing with women more?

Cassie: It’s all baby steps. And I’ve learned to never say never. But right now I’m totally male-oriented and I’d rather pamper them. I was even giving the girls massages here. And I keep nails sharp for back-scratching.

: Have you ever done a threesome before?

Cassie: Yes, a few times with friends of mine. A girl and a guy, we both took care of the guy and kissed and played amongst ourselves.

: Have you ever gone down on a woman?

Cassie: No, but a woman has gone down on me.

: Do you think women can work it better than men?

Cassie: I haven’t really come across a woman who has really tripped my trigger. But maybe I just haven’t been with the right women.

: Do you like to play rough when you have sex?

Cassie: I don’t like to leave marks, no evidence. But I’m getting more into it because some of the partners I’ve had asked for it. So I’ve had to adjust what I consider pain. These are things I
wouldn’t normally do.

: Do you masturbate a lot?

Cassie: Five times a day. I told you your sex drive is high in your thirties!

:Wow. How do you have energy for anything else?

Cassie: It gives me more energy.  That’s why I invest a lot in toys. It’s funny, in my twenties I would have never though of going to the toy store.  I was too conservative. Now I love it and I meet all these girls who say they love it, too. It’s a lot of fun to go pick out toys with a group of girlfriends.

: Are any of your girlfriends who join you at the sex store busty?

Cassie: Some of them are.

: That’s quite a sight, a group of attractive, busty women buying toys together.

Cassie: [Laughs] Yes, it is. We get a lot of looks. There’s actually a scene like that in the movie.

: So what is your favorite kind of toy?

Cassie: I don’t have one exclusive favorite.  It’s a combination of a couple of things. I’d say first glass dildos and then vibrators.

: What is it that you like about those toys?

Cassie: Glass dildos are smooth and cool and just feel nice. And vibrators,well they move ways that a tongue or penis can’t. Not to say that vibrators are better than the real thing, but they help me when I’m alone.

: Are you into receiving oral?

Cassie: It’s a learning process for me because I’ve never been into receiving, I’ve always been into giving. Some of the men I’ve seen we’re like, “You’re going to have to learn how to let me take care of you.” So I have to force myself because I’m just not good at it.

: What would you say is your kinkiest sexual encounter?

Cassie: Probably doing the pile driver position. Before I did it, I didn’t even know it existed.

: Can you explain what that is for those of us who don’t know?

Cassie: Basically your head and neck are on the floor and the rest of your body is in the air and the guy is coming down like an oil drill.

: What position do you like the most?

Cassie: When my head is off the bed, the guy stands over me and tit fucks me while I suck on his balls.

: So you’re into tit fucking?

Cassie:Yes. And that’s another thing that just happened this year.

: You tried it for the first time just this year?

Cassie: No, but I really started to like it this year.

: So you’re really coming into your sexuality.

Cassie: Yes. It’s been a couple of years of learning and trying to figure out what’s good and what suits me.

: If there was one thing you know now that you wish you knew when you were younger, what would it be?

Cassie: I think it all just comes with experience. I look back at all the people who’ve given me advice, and I wish I would’ve listened to it. And I wish I could’ve been the person I am now for all those years back then. I’ve worked very hard and I have a very clear path. I’m not afraid anymore. I was afraid of actually experiencing really good sex, or having toys or doing kinky things. Now I love having sex
outside and I didn’t before. I was always afraid of what people would think of me. But now it’s like, “Oh well.” If they don’t like it I can’t change it. I’m happier than I’ve ever been and I’m safe. 

:Were your parents strict?

Cassie: Yes, totally.

: So when did you start to develop your boobs?

Cassie: Since freakin’ birth. But really, I remember very clearly being very, very developed by the fourth grade.  I was in cross-country in high school and it sucked so bad because I had to wear two sports bras. But it didn’t work well at all.

: By the time you were in high school were guys asking you out on lots of dates?

Cassie: I was so shy and mousy I always kind of blended into the background. So not really.

: Even with the boobs?

Cassie: They would make comments but I was more of the nice girl who would do their homework.

: Did you ever try to hide your boobs or suppress them?

Cassie: Yeah. I always wore big sweaters. The biggest cup size I’d ever find in a store was a DD so I had been wearing that for years. Then recently I went to get measured and they were like, “Are you crazy?” And my bra size turned out to be a G.

:Were you not as sexual when you were younger?

Cassie: I think it was more that I was scared to express myself or experiment.  Now if anyone suggests anything I’m willing to try it. Worst case scenario, you like it.

: So you’re doing this for fun?

Cassie: Yes. I don’t focus on things for money. I feel that if you do things for the right reason and you really have your heart into it, then you’ll be taken care of. I’d definitely consider this a passion of mine. I’ve found something that I love.

: Is there anything you won’t do sexually?

Cassie: Nothing that involves pain. With anal, I can do it with a smaller guy. But that’s very few and far between.  I’ve probably done it three times in my life. It’s good, but it’s got to be with the right person. They have to go slow and listen to me.

: You know what you want. Maybe that’s why guys are intimidated by you.

Cassie: I do know what I want and that’s why I’m here. It’s a stretch for me to come from Arizona. So for me to do this, it’s because I really want to.

: Have you learned anything new from shooting porn?

Cassie: I’ve done most things. And I think my age helps. I got a lot of compliments from the guys. One guy here, his thing is hand jobs. He loves them and he said not many women know how to do them well because they just go up and down. But he told me I’m really talented with my hands. That was nice because he was quite a bit younger than me.

: What’s your hand job secret?

Cassie: I try to put myself in their place and think about what they’re feeling. Nobody wants the same thing over and over again. It’s friction, so if you do it for a certain amount of time and you know when to make the switch you can keep someone on edge for quite a while. It’s a bit of a tease
and taking it to the limit.

: Do you get compliments on your blow jobs?

Cassie: I do get quite a few compliments on my oral skills. I have an oral fixation. I’m always chewing gum, pen caps, straws, anything. Now I’ve made a part-time career out of my oral
fixation and I’m a workaholic.

: So does that also mean you’re a sexaholic?

Cassie: Yes. [Laughs] Like I said, I’m doing what I love. And aside from sex, it’s also giving to somebody else. We all have a lot of stress in our lives and we forget that the other person is
going through the same thing. So if we step back and figure out what that person needs then we can change their life because we just cleared their minds. And doing that makes me feel good about myself.

: So are you saying that you can clear guys’ minds with your de-stressing sex skills?

Cassie: Yes, but it goes further than that. When I’m with someone I give them a nice massage from head to toe then I focus on giving them a blow job and stuff. So to me, by taking my time and doing a hand massage and sucking on their fingers, they’ll melt. It’s about the whole experience.

: Are you into feet?

Cassie:As part of the massage. But the hand thing usually blows them away and then moving to the back of the neck and then going up to the temples and doing a facial massage.

: Do guys return the favor?

Cassie: They try. But I’m a giver and I’m picky. So if they’re really not giving me what I need I’ll take over.

: Sounds good to me.

Cassie: I think it bothers some men because they’re givers.

: At least someone’s getting pleased. And hopefully readers will be pleased with your interview.

Cassie: I hope so, too. Like with everything, I gave it my all.